Is it wrong to judge women that are fat (I mean really fat)?
I am a member of many online dating sites. Some are crap and just send you junk emails - some are actually worth paying for and you get a lot of quality contacts.
Recently, I have been chattng with a woman that found my profile on a dating site and we have been getting on very well. She mentioned when we first started talking that she was a bit on the large size but never mentioned her size as a problem.
Well, things have moved on since then and tonight she asked when I was going to come round and "see her". I, intrigued, asked for a photo.
Well spank my arse and call me Judy - damn she was fat.
Now I have nothing against fat women. I am a lover of all shapes and sizes as long as people aren't obese I normally find them attractive. This women, however, was about 300 pounds and I think at least part of her was deep fried.
I wish it had been different. I wish she was a UK size 20. But she wasn't. She was too fat for me and that's something I have never run into before.
Do women find the same problem with men? Or is it just a man thing?
5 comments:
Hello, I've stalked you here through your comment at mine and decided to chip in. I have friends who are very, very large and have men falling over themselves to date them - I think it's just about what you personally find attractive. I've never been drawn to fat men, but similarly, I've never been drawn to blonde or short men.
On another note, the thin is beautiful thing has changed dramatically over the last few years. Now many high street shops stock size sixes and we have the whole size zero phenomenon, women like me who are a size 10/12 worry about being perceived as large. Five years ago a 10 was considered the perfect size. Someone even wrote a song about it!
Any size between 10 and 22 is pretty much OK for me. I don't like women to be too skinny. Slim is fine but I once had a girlfirend that was so thin you could feel her pelvic bones banging against you when we were having sex. Not a nice feeling at all.
i'm new here and just browsing.... (not stalking:D )
i'm a size 8/10 mainly because i'm small. i eat like a pig but people still call me skinny! to me it sort of depends on whether or not people are dieting and are perposely that skinny or just don't gain weight the way every one else does.
heaven knows that there is a fat person inside of me! but i just don't gain weight that easilly. my mums the same. but i've always like my men big. i mean rugby player big thick thighs and arms the works!!! it's just about personal preferance! x
yes, women do. or at least this woman does. i am a seriously fussy bitch though, so maybe my opinion doesn't count for much...
good post
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